Idiom
Bite the bullet
By EasySay. Published . Updated .
Bite the bullet means to do something hard or unpleasant instead of putting it off.
You know it has to be done, so you find your courage and begin. People say it about a big bill, a difficult talk or a visit they dread. It is friendly and common in Australia, the UK and the US.
Written for EasySay, in our own words.
In short
- AvoidSay “bite the bullet”, not “bite a bullet” or “bite the bullets”.
- Or sayFace up to it
Bite the bullet: what it is, and what it is not
- IS
- Facing something hard or unpleasant and getting on with it, because you cannot avoid it.
- IS
- Longman labels it informal.
- IS NOT
- About a bullet in the teeth: it means facing something hard and getting on with it.
Meaning: To face something hard or unpleasant and get on with it, because you cannot avoid it.
How do people say it?
- In conversation:
The dentist scares me, but I will bite the bullet and book a visit this week.
- At work:
We need to bite the bullet and tell the customer about the delay today.
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What should I know?
The words say
A person pressing their teeth onto a bullet.
It really means
Choosing to face something hard or unpleasant, with courage, because it cannot be avoided.
What do dictionaries say?
- In Australia
- Longman labels it informal, so a plainer phrase suits a formal letter. The dictionaries we checked give it no Australian label, so it is general English, not only from Australia.
- In the UK
- The dictionaries we checked give it no British label, so it is general English, not only from the UK.
- In the US
- The dictionaries we checked give it no American label, so it is general English, not only from the US.
What mistakes should I avoid?
- Say “bite the bullet”, not “bite a bullet” or “bite the bullets”. The words stay the same.
- The phrase is not about weapons or violence. It is about courage when a job is hard.
- Use it for a choice you can act on, such as a visit or a payment. Do not use it for something that simply happens to you, such as a storm.
The phrase usually comes after words that show a decision or a duty. You can say “I will bite the bullet”, “we need to bite the bullet” or “you will just have to bite the bullet”.
The verb changes with the time, as in “she bit the bullet” and “he is biting the bullet”. The bullet and the word “the” stay as they are. People often add “and” and then the action: bite the bullet and call, bite the bullet and say sorry.
Use it when something is unpleasant but needed, and when the main problem is waiting. A bill, a medical test, a hard message to a colleague and a long drive are all good matches.
Do not use it for bad weather, where nothing can be decided, and do not use it for something you enjoy. The idea is a small act of courage.
A simple way to remember it is to picture a person holding something hard between their teeth. For a moment they stay quiet and steady.
They do not run away from the hard thing, and they do not complain about it. They get through it. Say the phrase in your head the next time you stand at the door of a task you want to avoid.
What else can I say?
- Face up to it Plain. People say “You have to face up to the problem.”
- Get on with it Casual. People say “Stop worrying and get on with it.”
- Grit your teeth A close cousin. It stresses pushing on while something is hard.
More idioms
- Cold turkey Stopping a habit suddenly and completely, with no slow steps.
- Burn the midnight oil To work or study late into the night, often to meet a deadline.
- Elephant in the room A big, obvious problem that people know about but do not want to talk about.
- Throw in the towel To give up and stop trying; to admit defeat.
- The whole nine yards Everything, all the way; with nothing left out.
- The ball is in your court It is your turn to act or decide; the next move is yours.
- Back to square one Starting over from the very start, after a plan fails.
- Piece of cake Very easy to do; no trouble at all.
More examples
- In a text:
Time to bite the bullet and ring the bank. Wish me luck!
Questions people ask
Is “bite the bullet” rude or violent?
No. It has a bullet in the picture, but it is about courage, not about harming anyone. People use it in schools, offices and homes.
Can I use “bite the bullet” in an email?
Yes. It is common in friendly work emails, for example “We should bite the bullet and move the date.” For a very formal letter, “decide to go ahead” is plainer.
What is the difference between “bite the bullet” and “give up”?
They are opposites. To bite the bullet is to face the hard thing and do it. To give up is to stop trying.
Sources and dates
- EasySay's own writing for the idioms, EasySay. Licence: original writing for EasySay. Checked .
- Longman Dictionary of Contemporary English: usage labels, Pearson Education. Licence: our own words, from the facts in the source. Checked .
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